Life is about trade-offs. I know there are people who want me to believe I can have it all. And true maybe I don't always think big enough. But I'm sorry...in many cases...it's a trade-off.
I own my own business. That means I have quite a bit of autonomy...but I give up a steady paycheck and paid vacations. I am single and live alone so I always get to choose what's for dinner and I am in charge of the remote, but I am also in charge of all the chores and bills, and my feet get cold on winter nights. I am not saying any one option is better than another, only that it is interesting to note that every option has some good points and some less desired ones. Like not working out. I'm not as lean. So slighter softer. Higher body fat means rounder belly and hips. But, my breasts are bigger! Well, maybe just fuller, but still! Guess every one of us gets to decide what trade-offs we want to live with ;)